OBSERVER'S CORNER

Life always offers us the opportunity to choose what suits us best. Our choices define our personality and our personalities reveal who we truly are. We can either choose to live a phony life, deceiving everyone around us, or we can choose the opposite path. The people around us serve as a mirror, reflecting how we define ourselves and the standards we use to measure our worth. We are constantly bombarded with both positive and negative influences from our surroundings, but it is up to us to decide which ones we allow to shape us. The first time I heard these words, I didn't fully grasp their meaning until I had an encounter with a friend who spent an excessive amount of time pretending to have a lavish lifestyle, using public goods to convince others that he lived even more extravagantly at home. However, it turned out that he had no access to those things he boasted about when we were in the comfort of our own homes. This friend of mine is incredibly difficult to reach, yet his b

Business moguls around the world have undoubtedly encountered the terms "First in, first out" and "Last in, first out." The latter is particularly prevalent among professionals and workers, except for those who are paid based on the number of hours they work, who adhere to the former. This way of life has become deeply ingrained in our society, infiltrating various aspects of our lives. Even when attending meetings, events, or appointments, these individuals expect to arrive late and leave as early as possible, disregarding the age-old adage that "the early bird catches the worm." I recently came across a friend who embodies this frustrating attitude. He consistently arrives late to work, yet is always eager to leave as soon as possible. On one occasion, he missed out on a well-deserved promotion, solely due to his chronic tardiness. Instead of taking responsibility for his own actions, he foolishly blames those around him, failing to recognize that his la

Meeting someone and instantly connecting with them is a rare and precious experience. Such encounters can be life-changing, and I had the privilege of meeting such a person. From the moment I met him, I knew he was special. His warmth and genuine kindness radiated from him, and his smile had the power to brighten even the darkest days. He's not just a teacher; he's a father figure to me because of the many qualities that make him so much more than an educator. His guidance came into my life at the perfect moment when I needed it most. I remember overhearing someone say, "He's a great man," shortly after our first meeting. At the time, I didn't fully comprehend the depth of those words, but I soon discovered their truth through his actions. He became a steady presence in my life, offering a shoulder to cry on and sharing advice that has left an indelible mark on my character. His impact isn't unique to me; countless others he has taught and mentored have th

I used to hear tales of trepidation surrounding those who wear smiles and bare their teeth, but I never fathomed that I would personally encounter such an individual. However, at some point in my life, I paid a visit to a close relative who, in every interaction, urged me to remain resolute in all my endeavors. Little did I know, these smiles were nothing but a facade. I was overjoyed when I received an invitation to stay with him and other relatives for a while. It was during this time that I came to realize that even the mightiest of creatures, like the lion, can don a smile before launching an attack on its prey. My astonishment knew no bounds when I discovered that this relative, who was revered by many as a paragon of spirituality, was not what he seemed. The shocks I experienced were unparalleled, surpassing even the capabilities of the most advanced shock absorbers in cars. He set the standard for everything and failed to appreciate anything unless it matched his status. He had

Relationships are truly fascinating, aren't they? Each encounter brings with it new revelations and the potential for something extraordinary. And let me tell you, there was a time in my life when I met someone who completely turned things around for me. It was a dramatic meeting, one that would forever change the course of my life. This man, oh, this man, he has become more than just a friend - he's family. You see, this incredible individual has been the backbone of not just a few individuals, but entire churches. It's mind-boggling, really. Some people believe that common interests or shared experiences bring people together, but this man has proven that it's all about selflessness and the need for brotherhood. He has sacrificed so much, not just for his own family, but for anyone who crosses his path. My first encounter with him was an absolute surprise. Little did I know that this surprise would continue to amaze me, time and time again. He constantly surprises me

At some point in my life, I had the privilege of connecting with a remarkable woman who initially seemed hesitant to form a close friendship. I believed that establishing a bond with her would be an insurmountable challenge, only to discover that she was an incredibly open-minded individual, someone with whom I could easily share my thoughts and experiences. Our encounter has evolved from me being a mere observer from afar to becoming a cherished friend, someone who consistently checks up on me despite having achieved nearly everything life has to offer. Imagine my astonishment when, on one occasion, she called out my name amidst a bustling crowd, eager to engage in a conversation about the path I was embarking on. Her encouragement and sisterly advice, coupled with unwavering support, proved invaluable as I navigated the journey of life. What many fail to realize about her is that she is always available to support young people in their endeavors. If one pays close attention, it becom

Once, I bumped into this dude who was totally different from what I had heard about him. I never thought I'd end up sitting at a table with him, having deep conversations about life. He completely shattered my expectations and taught me that friendship doesn't care about age, it's all about genuinely wanting to learn from each other.  Our bond grew so strong that he started sharing his professional insights and strategies that led to his success. It was mind-blowing how, despite being rich and experienced, we talked like we were brothers. He was like a guiding light, always encouraging me to make a positive impact on society whenever I could.  Thanks to him, I got to meet his daughters, who were on their way to becoming badass lawyers. His unwavering support for others and his strong spirituality showed me how down-to-earth he was. It blew my mind that someone with so much life experience would seek advice from someone as inexperienced as me, especially when it came to life