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A Connection Beyond First Impressions

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It was incredible how easily we clicked during our second encounter! Our first meeting was a bit awkward and tense, but I could tell she was just unfamiliar with her surroundings. Despite that, I couldn't help but notice her kindness and beauty, especially those smiles that never seemed to fade. We all couldn't help but sneak glances at her, trying not to get caught in our admiration. During our second meeting, I tried to keep my distance at first, but it was impossible. I found myself right in the middle of things, helping out, and there she was, offering her assistance despite being busy. We ended up having a deep conversation, sharing our experiences. Her lovely French accent and her passion for life struck me. I couldn't help but wonder why such a beautiful woman would choose a life of celibacy. The only explanation I could come up with was her strong faith in God. To my surprise, I later met her father and realized that their warmth and ability to bring joy to others w...

Guarding the Sanctity of the Eucharist: The Urgent Need for Church Discipline

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I am deeply concerned as each day passes by witnessing the decline in discipline exhibited by people in all aspects of life, including within the Church. This is a serious issue that cannot be ignored any longer. We must address this problem and find solutions as soon as possible. It is disheartening to see individuals actively working to undermine the disciplined behavior of others, while some remain indifferent to the situation. While commendable efforts are being made by the youth to address waste in our communities, the level of indiscipline that has infiltrated the Church is alarming. I was shocked to witness individuals engrossed in their phones during the Eucharist celebration, browsing social media, or even live streaming from the church. This behavior is not only disrespectful but also disrupts the sanctity of the liturgy. It is unacceptable that we are willing to compromise the beauty of our environment and now our worship as well. We must ask ourselves, what would happen if ...

When Kindness Feels Like Home

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I was thrilled with the incredible treatment I received from her! She opened my eyes to the fact that someone outside of your family can care for you so deeply that it feels like magic. This realization came at a time when I was feeling almost helpless, but she showered me with love and care that lifted my spirits. Initially, I thought her kindness was due to knowing someone I knew, but I soon learned that she treated everyone with the same level of compassion, regardless of their connection to her. Her generosity and warmth truly touched my heart. There was a moment when I saw her looking tired and stressed, yet she still managed to help others without hesitation. I inquired about her and the praise I heard filled me with pride for knowing such an amazing person. I am endlessly grateful to her and will never stop expressing my gratitude. She is truly one in a million, and I have realized that family is not just about blood relations.

Glimmers of Hope: The Strength Found in Relationships

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Having people around you is truly a blessing! Life can be lonely at times, but what's the point if you don't have relationships with others? We are social beings, meant to connect and engage with one another. I experienced the power of relationships when everything in my life was falling apart. I can't imagine where I would be without the support of those around me. Even in my darkest moments, they showed me that there is always a glimmer of hope and joy to be found. I may have been struggling, but I was never alone. I needed help to get through tough times, and I am so grateful for the relationships that have helped me along the way. I wouldn't wish a life without people on anyone - we truly thrive when we have others to lean on and support us.

Rediscovery of Life

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Poem by Naa Doodua Doodu When all hope fades and reason slips away, I look back at trials survived, ready to surrender, Wishing God would lift this burden, Yet not my will, but His be done. I endure pain, joy out of reach, The tunnel's light dim, the path uncertain. My pillow, silent comfort, absorbs my tears, Never judging, always there. In the lowest moments, a still voice whispers, "Hold on," though my mind overpowers hope. Faith wavers, but His plans comfort me. "Blessed are those who mourn, they shall be comforted." He wipes every tear, showing love each day. I waited for the Lord; He heard my cry, Lifted me from the pit, set my feet on a rock, Put a new song in my mouth—praise to our God. Through His hope, I rise again, Rediscovering life, renewed and resilient.

The Unseen Backbone of Society: Valuing Every Contribution

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I understand the unwavering dedication of certain individuals who are always ready to serve mankind, but the negligence and greed of those in power have consistently been obstacles. Far too often, we underestimate the importance of individuals who perform seemingly insignificant tasks, when in reality, they are the backbone of society. In life, we must never underestimate the contributions of those who play a vital role. A philosopher and political figure once said, "They may take some time to organize, but when they do, the outcome cannot be contained." This statement resonates deeply with me as I observe the current state of affairs in our country. It has become evident that those in positions of power must take action to earn the respect of the citizens they serve. A recent personal experience has opened my eyes to the consequences of taking people for granted. When individuals are not valued and respected, they will inevitably assert their power. I witnessed firsthand the...

When Passion Meets Profession: Tales from the Frontlines of Care

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I have heard countless stories about the insensitivity of some medical professionals, and I have unfortunately witnessed it myself. However, I must acknowledge that some truly view their profession as a calling. It is not because I received superior treatment from them, but rather because of the love and passion with which they carry out their duties. During my time under the care of health professionals, I made a conscious effort to observe everything happening around me. I found myself smiling occasionally at the humility and joy they brought to their work. Despite facing challenging situations, these individuals maintained the utmost composure. One particular instance that stood out to me was when a nurse successfully convinced a patient to eat, despite the family's previous failed attempts. I marveled at the tactics employed by this healthcare provider, including singing to encourage the patient to eat. It is undoubtedly a difficult job, but these individuals have demonstrated ...

Elation Under the Moon: A Family Gathering to Remember

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One glorious day, I ventured out with my brothers for a delightful gathering filled with lively conversation and shared experiences. The group was a mix of ages, with both the young and old coming together to exchange stories. I was thrilled by the wealth of experiences shared, spanning from work to church and beyond. You know that feeling when someone shares something that resonates with you so deeply? I was so engrossed in the conversation that I failed to notice the beauty of nature surrounding us until one of my companions pointed out the radiant moon casting its shimmering light over the sea. The sight was so breathtakingly colorful that it filled me with a newfound appreciation for the wonders of nature and the divine creations of God. At that moment, I felt pure elation and wished I could witness such a sight every night, though the constraints of time and space made it impossible. Just as I once read that justice and peace have kissed, I witnessed the magical union of the moon ...

Faith in the Storm

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Poem by Naa Doodua Doodu As challenges rise, perseverance and patience become our norm. If we falter, we fail, for regret has no remedy. In the face of adversity, let us not be swayed by trouble, But instead, place our hope in the Lord for a brighter tomorrow. We make our choices, but God guides our path. He never disappoints; His "no" is the best answer for the moment. Though pain may endure for a night, joy comes with the dawn. So, let us cling to God with patience and perseverance, for He is faithful.

Lessons Beyond the Classroom: A Journey of Perseverance in Ghana

77yufyjjjc4A captivating story shared with me by a friend has stuck with me, as it resonates deeply with my own experiences. Like many young men in Ghana, I had the opportunity to work during the period between my basic school education and continuing to the next level of my education. This was a time before mobile phones were common, when airtime transfers, airtime cards, and call centers were the norm. I worked under someone who genuinely cared about my well-being, and I could see the concern on his face as I left to further my education. Life presented me with numerous opportunities. It was unusual for someone to be offered a teaching position straight out of high school, especially when many high school graduates were struggling to find work. I found myself teaching three subjects and taking on multiple responsibilities, while trained professionals had little to do. This pattern continued after I completed tertiary education. I couldn't understand why these individuals received...

Trust with Caution: Navigating Betrayal and Wisdom

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I've learned my lesson the hard way, and wish I had a time machine to fix all my past mistakes! But as they say, "When you fall, it's a mistake, but staying down is a decision." That quote has been my saving grace and kept me moving forward. I used to trust people way too easily and let me tell you, that got me into a lot of trouble. The final straw that broke the camel's back was a doozy. If it weren't for the fact that the people involved were understanding, I don't think I would have ever recovered from the shock. Sharing sensitive information with someone who has a vested interest in the topic is a recipe for disaster. I once spilled my guts to a close friend, thinking I was giving him a heads up, only to have it blow up in my face because he had his agenda. It was a mess, let me tell you. Turns out, this so-called friend only betrayed me because he was jealous of my relationship with the person in question. Talk about drama! After that whole debacle, ...

A Call to Worship: Join the Elogio Moment

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I have been emphasizing the importance of a collaborative effort within the Church, particularly from the youth. When the youth take the lead in church activities, the progress and impact are beyond imagination. A while back, the youth of Prince of Peace Catholic Church organized Alabanza, and it was a huge success. As I was looking through my photos, I stumbled upon a picture from the Elogio Moment. To my surprise, this program is led by the youth of Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic Church in Sowutuom. After some inquiries, I discovered that this is a program that you absolutely cannot miss on June 30, 2024. In life, it is crucial to listen to the Word of God, praise Him, worship Him, and pray to Him, that is the main reason we must be there. We must constantly challenge ourselves to allow God to work in our lives, and I am thrilled to see that the youth have embraced this wholeheartedly. Let's all come together to support this incredible moment, just as we do with any other program. ...

Why Not Now? Embracing the Power of Immediate Action

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I have been captivated by a particular inspirational quote, or better yet, a life-inspiring mantra shared by a friend. Each post grabs my attention and resonates with me deeply. These quotes have taught me the importance of seizing opportunities with urgency and dedication as if my very existence depended on it. One story that has stuck with me since my early days is the notion that what must be done should be done swiftly and efficiently. The question posed is simple - Why not now? This philosophy does not suggest hasty or careless actions, but rather emphasizes the importance of thoughtful consideration coupled with decisive action, all in the pursuit of goodness. The story that continues to echo in my mind is that of a man who encountered an elderly gentleman struggling to navigate a treacherous open drain in a desolate street. Despite the potential risks of being in such a location, the man paused, pondered, and ultimately decided that what must be done should be done promptly and ...

SECRETS OF THE NIGHT: Power of second Chance

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Almost forgetting about her and all the incidents surrounding our relationship, I had the opportunity to travel out of the country to further my studies and work. One day, as I was taking a stroll through the bustling streets, I suddenly turned my head and caught sight of a mesmerizing damsel. My heart skipped a beat, and at that moment, I knew I had to seize my chance. As I approached her, I realized that the missing piece that had left me feeling dejected was none other than that beautiful damsel. I was so captivated by her presence that I almost tripped over my own feet when she turned and her radiant smile illuminated my face. We stood there, both stunned, as we locked eyes. And then, without hesitation, we embraced. She jokingly asked me if I had been stalking her, and we both laughed. We found a quiet spot to sit and catch up on how life had been treating us. It was then that she revealed she had left the country because she didn't want to be a burden in my life. We reconnect...

SECRETS OF THE NIGHT: Love's Silent End

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After numerous visits to my parents, I finally mustered up the courage to meet hers. However, she was hesitant to introduce me to her family. I thought giving her space to consider would help, but alas, it did not come to fruition. I couldn't shake the feeling that she was keeping something significant about her life hidden from me. Despite my blind love for her, I clung to hope. When I was finally granted the chance to meet her parents, I was taken aback to discover her affluent background. Both of her parents were esteemed legal professionals in the country. It dawned on me that she may have feared I would use this information against her or her family due to the circumstances of our meeting. It was during this encounter that I also learned of her successful career as a banker, having received numerous accolades for her exceptional service. I couldn't help but wonder, what else was she concealing from me? Despite my reservations, I was determined to continue the relationship,...

SECRETS OF THE NIGHT: My journey through online dating

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After my failed attempts to win her over for a date, I decided to venture into the unknown. This led me to sign up for various dating and adult websites in hopes of finding love. I encountered numerous stunning women, leaving me unsure of who to approach first. Summoning all my courage, I reached out to one particular woman, only to be met with the shocking question, "How much will you pay?" It dawned on me that she was a hookup. Curious, I inquired about her rates, which turned out to be exorbitant. Despite the steep price, I persisted in pursuing her, eventually asking her to be my girlfriend. To my dismay, she initially declined, but after relentless persuasion, she reluctantly agreed. I naively believed I could change her ways, unaware of the impossibility of such a feat. For nearly three years, we were together. She introduced me to a world I never knew existed, showing me the darker side of life. Despite the warning signs, I chose to overlook them, giving her the benefi...

SECRETS OF THE NIGHT: Search for love

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Strolling through the bustling streets of Waikiki, my mind was consumed with the words spoken to me during the meeting with my parents. My heart raced, signaling a realization that I was indeed growing older and the time had come to settle down and start a family. The burning question lingered in my mind - who would I bring home to meet my parents? For so long, my focus had been solely on work and providing for myself and my loved ones. The mere thought of my parents' voices filled me with anxiety, igniting a fierce determination to find a suitable partner to call my own. Lost in contemplation, a memory surfaced of a woman at my workplace who had shown interest in me, a green light I had foolishly overlooked. With newfound eagerness, I resolved to ask her out on a date and lay my intentions bare. However, my hopes were swiftly dashed when she revealed she was already involved with someone else. Her words struck me like a dagger to the heart, leaving me reeling and unable to focus f...

CHOICES IN TIME

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Poem by: Naa Doodua Doodu If I could turn back time, I would choose to be me, Embracing each flaw, every strength, and all that I see. If I could turn back time, I would still choose you, Through the stormiest nights and skies of perfect blue. If I could turn back time, I would choose to trust, Your words, your heart, and your bond are so robust. If I could turn back time, I would still choose your smile, Even if it meant walking an extra mile. If I could turn back time, I would choose every tear, Every laugh, every whisper, and all that is dear. If I could turn back time, I would still choose your grace, For in your joy, I've always found my place.

Lessons Unlearned: The Lingering Impact of the 2015 Twin Disasters

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I am still grappling with the tragic events of June 3rd, 2015. It was a day that should have never stained the history of Ghana. I can't help but wonder about the thoughts and feelings of the families affected, as well as those who witnessed the horror firsthand. It was a day of utter despair for Ghana. Every year, people attempt to show sympathy for the victims, but I question whether we have truly learned anything from this tragedy as Ghanaians. Just when I thought we had turned a new leaf after the twin disasters, we reverted to our old ways. The reckless dumping of waste, construction in waterways, lack of patriotism, and disregard for the environment continue to plague our society. Will we ever change for the better? Some may try to shift the blame onto the government, but I believe it is our responsibility to respect our environment, take action to decongest our cities and educate ourselves on sustainable living practices. It pains me to know that this disaster was entirely p...

Empathy Over Entertainment: A Call for Real-Life Heroism

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It's truly disheartening how we tend to downplay important matters. We've become so obsessed with social media and this whole citizen journalism thing that many of us are completely oblivious to its existence. We're all in a race to be the first to post and get tagged as the fastest news deliverer. Sure, it has its perks in some cases, but that shouldn't overshadow the importance of lending a helping hand. I was livid when I came across a video making the rounds on social media. I couldn't help but wonder where the conscience of those bystanders had disappeared. I'm almost tempted to call them educated illiterates. How could anyone just stand by and watch for entertainment while two young people were in a physical altercation? The natural response should have been to intervene and separate them, not stand there cheering them on. Just imagine if that little girl had ended up losing her life - the guilt that would haunt the other person for the rest of their days....